
Restoring Marriages One Husband at a Time
Dare to Hope (Lamentations 3:21)
Hope for Husbands
It may look and feel like you're going through hell right now, and as far as your marriage is concerned, you may be right. But Jesus has been known to walk into desperate situations and make what we thought was irredeemably lost and turn it into something unmistakably priceless.
Whether the two of you aren't getting along, you're separated, or divorced, or possibly a situation even more troubling, we're here to come alongside and share with you the same hope and insights God has given us.
Our Services
We offer something as simple and powerful as constant prayer for you and your wife. We have a number of printed materials and resources that might help you either work through or just make it through where you'd told yourself you'd never be in your marriage. We get that and believe it or not understand.
These may be some of the darkest days of your life. And ya, this may sound trite, but you're not the only one whose been where you're at, even though it sure feels like it. We have a caring, friendly, wise, and powerful God Whose into salvaging the unsavable. He's in the business of recycling what may look and feel and may be trashed. This is not "pie in the sky" hyped-up hyperbole, but just the kind of relational destruction He loves to save.
Listening
Personalized voice, text, or virtual sessions with the goal of creating a safe place for you to get out what's going on on the inside and hopefully get some answers for.
Seminars
At this time we offer only virtual, interactive events to try to meet the needs of groups if requested.
Resources
Biblical materials to support you during this time of distress and confusion.
Cost
All our services are offered free of charge.

Questions You Might Have
Why are you doing this Don?
I believe God's told me to do it.
Why would I want to talk to you?
First of all I don't know. I just know when I was divorced, I really wanted to talk to someone, but didn't want to expose my failures to friends and didn't have the money to pay a professional.
What qualifies you to talk to me about my marriage?
I guess being up front, I've probably been where you're at. My wife Laurie and I were divorced for seven years, and then after going through all kinds of hell, God brought us back together in remarriage (almost twenty years now).
I have nearly twenty years of experience in full-time pastor or pastor-like work.
I've worked as a licensed professional counselor for a couple of decades, BUT AM NO LONGER LICENSED NOR AM I A PRACTICING PROFESSIONAL.
Are you a Christian?
Yes. Jesus got a hold of me (that is, He came to live inside of me) back in 1977.
Do you have any schooling?
Not that it matters (because I believe what God's shown me from the bible and what He allowed Laurie and me to go through is far more valuable), but yes, I do.
How are you and your wife doing today?
Great question! We were friends for six years before we got married, were separated a year or so, and divorced for seven. And now, after some twenty years, we get along better than we ever have (possibly except during our time of infatuation while dating). We still like and love each other and continue to grow in our friendship with each other.
Do we make a priority of those men who are in a marriage with one or more chronically ill or special needs family members?
Yes. Due to our son (of nearly twenty-seven years) having significant cerebral palsy and chronic lung disease, we know the challenges that these circumstances can place on a marriage.
Please feel free to write in and add to our FAQs.
Contact Us
Please feel free to reach out for support today.

